One day
I will be more than
a phone call away.
One day
I will be here
and you will be there.
One day
I will live more than
7 miles away.
One day
we will wonder
if our time here together
could have been spent any better.
One day
you will run away with your lover
once again.
And that one day
will serve as
the ultimate heartbreak.
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Sunday, June 7, 2009
Dealing with Breakups.
Greetings!
We've only been friends on Facebook for a few weeks now and I don't believe we've exchanged hello's.
I've been consumed with reading your status updates for a few minutes now. Breakups aren't easy. Duh. I don't know how long you guys were together, but that really doesn't matter when you like/love someone. I hope, by some of the things I say, help you in moving on, albeit, most will not be things you want to hear.
Your most recent status mentions that you want to die. If any individual makes you feel like this, were they ever really worth all the emotions in the first place? Of course one would not think of this when things are going good. Sadly, that is the past and this is now...
Another status update refers to the dreams coming when you close your eyes. I once wrote a blog about memories. Sooner or later, you begin to realize that memories are only a reflection of the past. Of how things used to be. And that there is no going back. Memories are hopeless...
One final status update that I would like to comment asked when does the hurt stop. Honestly, that's up to you. The pain will stay around as long as you allow it to.
So, what do you now? The ball is in your court...
Do you say, today I'm going to move on and be thankful for the time I had with this person and begin the healing process?
Or do you say, today I'm going to continue to let myself hurt and hope for something that may never happen only to prolong the pain?
The decision is yours only.
Free your mind.
I know it's not easy.
I will share my story with you, if you'd like.
Best of luck.
Justin
We've only been friends on Facebook for a few weeks now and I don't believe we've exchanged hello's.
I've been consumed with reading your status updates for a few minutes now. Breakups aren't easy. Duh. I don't know how long you guys were together, but that really doesn't matter when you like/love someone. I hope, by some of the things I say, help you in moving on, albeit, most will not be things you want to hear.
Your most recent status mentions that you want to die. If any individual makes you feel like this, were they ever really worth all the emotions in the first place? Of course one would not think of this when things are going good. Sadly, that is the past and this is now...
Another status update refers to the dreams coming when you close your eyes. I once wrote a blog about memories. Sooner or later, you begin to realize that memories are only a reflection of the past. Of how things used to be. And that there is no going back. Memories are hopeless...
One final status update that I would like to comment asked when does the hurt stop. Honestly, that's up to you. The pain will stay around as long as you allow it to.
So, what do you now? The ball is in your court...
Do you say, today I'm going to move on and be thankful for the time I had with this person and begin the healing process?
Or do you say, today I'm going to continue to let myself hurt and hope for something that may never happen only to prolong the pain?
The decision is yours only.
Free your mind.
I know it's not easy.
I will share my story with you, if you'd like.
Best of luck.
Justin
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